Life gave me a lot of traumatic events. I have 100 % success in surviving them and learning how to thrive. These include stalking, rape, bullying (childhood and adult), prejudices I faced because of the color of my skin and my gender, groping, and cancer. It's not what was I wearing, eating, where was I , I'm not good enough, smart enough, or why.. shit happens in life. That is NOT your fault! so many things we cannot control.
You can still be who you want to be. You can still chase your dreams. It's your choice and within your power. Don't give that power to anyone else.
You can't always control a situation, but you can control how you react, act, and move forward from it.
They made me resilient, stronger, and with a passion and desire that no one ever endures these pains. I wish for a world where there is equality and peace, where each human realizes we are all equal and focuses on what kindness they can bring rather than the horrors we see and endure.
I'm a mom, have a successful career, and live a great life. I learn how to not just survive but thrive. You can too. I wish I could hug each of you writing here about your painful trauma. I send you peace, love, positive healing energy, and light
. You are all able to thrive, Know that inside you is all you need to feel love and joy and to temper the pain from trauma. Know that you are enough. You are loved. You have purpose. You are made of stardust and shine your light bright and that helps others even if you don't know it. xx