Guys...so annoying(Part2)

Hello again guys this is a part 2 of the what one of my writings was (guys...ugh so annoying). So about that guy I was talking about whom i met at a halloween party last year. well....we barely talk anymore and he told me recently that he doesn't/can't be in a relationship. i get it, since he has never been in one and he's going to college. a bit difficult and challenging. but anyways....still a bit sad that we barely talk anymore but what happens is he gets burned out really fast for some reason and ends the convos really quick. But like there is something I want to share and get off my chest about this guy and this situation. So I was at youth group yesterday and we were in small groups. so basically we answered diff questions and one of the questions was "what is the hardest decision you have ever made" and this guy in my group said "this my offend someone in this group but it is dropping a relationship. I was so shocked and it was so uncalled for and I felt a bit upset because like why would he share with a group of ppl. i like thought it was just between us. after that he played it off and acted like him and his friend (whom is a guy) were in that relationship (jokingly) (i promise you they are not gay, they were just messing around). after he got up twice and came back to our group he apologized to me those two times. I told him it was alright, but really it wasn't I wasn't ok at the time. Also after that situation I saw him go out into the hallway and walk around there for a bit, i think he may have been thinking about it and bothered by what he said and or affected. Idk, maybe he felt he had to get that off his chest. but you see ever since he asked me if i liked him he started taking notes about me and how i was to him (as in personality and texting style, etc.) and ig he must have thoroughly thought about this thing between us because i know he was thinking about it a lot (as i would be too). Another thing i want to bring up too is another guy whom i had met before, welp i started talking to him and ok this is a long and confusing story. so basically we started texting last year and it was all cool ya know and we talked everyday. then one day i asked to call him and he accepted to calling and so we called. during that call, at one moment i asked him what he was doing that weekend and he said nothing wbu and i said yea nothing also, so then he asks me if i want to go out and do something like go the movies or something (bro was literally asking me out). well i had to decline because my parents didn't want me dating yet and we had just started talking plus i knew nothing about him. so the next day i told him i couldnt and why and he never responded to that.....so after that our friendship went downhill from that and he started delaying the convos and responding hrs and even days later. not cool. that continued and i had a hangout that he went to sometime this year and he was going to his car and i asked him probs the stupidest thing i could do. i said like do u like him and he said i would rather not respond to that. that made me feel bad that i asked immediately and i apologized ofc he said its ok dont worry about it but it wasnt, i shouldnt have asked that. well later he was still doing the same texting style.

recently we have been texting a little not much ofc. but what waas really weird is he went overseas and was texting me a lot and initiating convos which he never did and then he came back home and went right back to his same texting style. im so confused i want answers, does he like me or not???? but like everytime i have asked him if he wants to come to a hangout with our friendships he happily goes for the invite and comes to them. so like is he coming to these hangouts because he wants to be around me or not??? anyways thanks for listening to me go on a rant about guys whom i have talked to in my life. (do this because i need to and i am the type of person that always needs to share and tell my friends how i feel and whats going on in